Why is There So Much Chasidic Divorces Recently

[העלא]

Due to the Reason, Of Some English Writers, In The Ashkol Of That Subject that its Written In Yiddish
We are Opening A new Ashkol To Discuss This Subject In English,
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[venus]

This is precisely the reason. When people come from such different worlds, where even the language is a barrier, you'll have less happy couples.

[קאווע טרינקער]

It's a myth
False claim

[דריידל]

Because men speak only Yiddish and women speak only English so there's miscommunication like the dor hafluge

[venus]

I'd go even further than the language and say that the culture is so vastly different. You can think the men and women are raised in different religions even. Some find the differences endearing while for others it's a real barrier.

[I'm back]

מי נאו ביליוו דיס.
וויי וואד יא סעי סא?

[פיטומי מילי]

It's a myth
False claim

How about the today's chasidos culture is a myth and thats the cause of the lot divorces

[קאווע טרינקער]

Your starting point, the subjects title, is a false claim.

[הקטן]

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[נולד מאוחר]

Why Is There So Much Chasidic Divorces Recently
So much, how much?

[מ גפני]

so much or so many?

[נולד מאוחר]

''to me the question seems to be ''why are there so many hasidic marriage recently

[התם ומתמם עם תמימים]

איך פארשטיי נישט קיין איין ווארט ענגליש פליז שרייב אידיש..

[אי איתמר]

איך פארשטיי נישט קיין איין ווארט ענגליש פליז שרייב אידיש..

ס'איז נישטא וואס צו פארשטיין,
בעצם איז מיר סאך געשאמאקער צו ליינען אין ענגליש
אבער נאכן ליינען דעי ענגלישע תגובות דא I CHANGED MY MIND,

...BTW, I think its very clear that there is much more divorces by non chasidic
( recently..? lately... ? this discussions is from venus indeed, r u a women)

[לאליפאפ]

איינער איז אין צו עפענען Under a minute Chasidus Word אשכול?

[berlbalaguleh]

so much or so many?

That is not the only grammatical error. How about interchanging singular and plural terms in the same sentence?!

[מ גפני]

so much or so many?

That is not the only grammatical error. How about interchanging singular and plural terms in the same sentence?!

ביטע מסביר'ן וואס די הויכע ווערטער באדייטן

[יואליש]

so much or so many?

That is not the only grammatical error. How about interchanging singular and plural terms in the same sentence?!

ביטע מסביר'ן וואס די הויכע ווערטער באדייטן

No relation to singularity and pluralism.

[קאווע טרינקער]

מ'מאכט אן הנחה און מ'פארלאנגט נאך א ביאור?

[berlbalaguleh]

so much or so many?

That is not the only grammatical error. How about interchanging singular and plural terms in the same sentence?!

ביטע מסביר'ן וואס די הויכע ווערטער באדייטן

אויף אידיש, עברית, אונגאריש, ספאניש אדער ענגליש?! הגם ס'איז אקעיגן רצון קדשו פונ'ם פותח האשכול, וועלכער האט געבעטן אז מ'זאל נאר מגיב זיין אין ענגליש. די שפראך וועלכע ער קען ב"ה זייער גוט! אעפי"כ וועל איך מסביר'ן אין אידיש. ער הייבט אן מיט א לשון יחיד. פארוואס "איז" און ער איז מסיים מיט א לשון רבים "גיטין/דיווארסעס". "סינגולאר, מיינט לשון יחיד. "פלוראל" מיינט לשון רבים.

[יואליש]

חדא מתורצת בחברתא, מאטש נעמט א סינגולער ווערב. נאר מאטש בעצם איז א גרייז, ווי שוין אנגעצייגט, מעני איז די ריכטיגע ווארט און דאן וואלט טאקע געווען ריכטיג צו שרייבן די פלורעל אר.

[venus]

So someone starts a thread on my name and you all take me to task. I was addressing a sexist comments in the other thread, not this question. But I thought it was ironic that you guys opened a separate thread for me within the context of this question so pointed out how vast the cultural separation between spouses in our community is.

To address the question, I think what was adjective is why are there more divorces today than in the past. The bigger question I think is, are our married couples happy? What are the reasons and if it's so, ate more getting out. In my humble opinion, most couples are probably not so miserable since the expectations from spouses are very low. However, if one spouse starts having גרעסערע השגות, that will cause problems.

Now the idea of feminism was brought up in the Yiddish thread. I do believe that feminism raised women's (and probably men's ) expectations of a relationship, and feminism also brought about a phenomena of more financial independent women. And because of וואס גויאישט אידישט זיך, it has definitely had an effect. Women have more options if they're not reliant on a spouse for income.

If it's a good thing or bad is another question entirely. If you think the sanctity of marriage is more important than human happiness and fulfillment, then you'd view this as destruction.

[איך אויך]

what should i write?

[הוגה]

This debate has no relation whatsoever with the sanctity of marriage, sanctity of ego and control maybe. The debate over feminism is a moral one. Is it moral to subordinate half of the population? The other side of the debate says that it is because it's for the betterment of society. Having said that, I doubt that any of the commenters here had morality in mind.

[איחוד פעלד]

When debating such an important topic, its.important to emphasize,.that divorces are not necessarily a bad thing.
Children from loveless marriages are not having a healthy home either.
However the reason why chassidm don't divorce more often is because of pressure of society. Therefore we can see when people do divorce, almost always each side will badmouth the other side, claiming they are adulterers etc, because then the divorce is justified.

Should someone divorce because of love and hate, its very shameful.

Because of this pressure, when we see a divorce, its a legitimate question to ask, howcome there are so many divorces, when in fact, the real question should be, why are so many couples still together.