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It's interesting that you're saying that more men laugh at the system. I was very surprised to find kave shteibel. I always thought that way more women think in grey and nuances than men.
But you do raise an I interesting point that deserves its own thread. First of all, are there less women that dont take the system so seriously, and two, if it's true why is it like this and why is it 'harder' for them, as you say.
Part of the answer might be the sample size of people who you interact with. If you interact only with men, or only with women, your opinion will be different.
This is the first time I hear someone claiming that more women laugh off or dismiss what they were taught in school than men do, so far most of the women I discussed this with saw this conformity as something positive and praiseworthy, and that something was wrong with the boys' chinuch that so many of them rebel.
You say that you were surprised to find this site, but is there a female version of such a site for chassidic women? As far as I know, there isn't.
